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Behavior at matinees in kindergarten

15.12.2017

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Musical director Vakulenko N.M.

Dear parents! Today I want to touch on the important topic of your behavior at matinees in kindergarten.

Arrive early for the matinee. You will be able to take off your outerwear and be sure to change into replacement shoes. Let's respect our children, because they wear Czech shoes at the matinee. Leave your outerwear and your child's in the locker room. Children change into costumes in a group; here you will help your child dress in a festive outfit, because this also takes time.

Such an important event as a matinee is carefully planned and prepared. Children at the matinee are the main ones and the holiday is created primarily for them. Therefore, our task is to help the child feel like an artist and show his best side at the matinee. It is very important for a child that his parents can see and appreciate his efforts.

Get ready for the matinee!!!

If in kindergarten you were asked to buy something for a matinee or prepare a costume for a child, do not refuse (of course, provided that fulfilling the request does not involve serious financial expenses). A very common mistake of parents is that they consider kindergarten as a kind of service enterprise, something like a hairdresser or dry cleaner, while reasoning something like this: “We handed over the child to you, so take care of his upbringing, but we have no time, we earn money.” . This is fundamentally wrong. Raising a child is a continuous and multifaceted process, and both child care workers and parents should take part in it. The teacher should be in tandem with you, moving in the same direction. Then the results of your common efforts will be noticeable.

Therefore, in order for everything to take place exactly as we would like, let us remind you of a few simple rules on which the success of the entire event and the success of your child specifically depends.

Children's matinees are an opportunity for parents to look at their child's behavior from the outside, to experience with him his successes and failures associated with his participation in scenarios and the ability to speak publicly. In this regard, while sitting at a children's party, some parents feel proud of their child, while others feel stressed. The parents of those children who perform in all numbers in a row are happy. And mothers of children who sit on chairs for most of the holiday, do not recite poems, do not know the lyrics of songs, and move their legs and arms at random while dancing in a round dance, feel offended. They are even ashamed of their child, who, as it turns out, does not know how to speak in public at all. Why didn't you sing? – not a single child can clearly answer this question.

Don't devalue your child's efforts!!!

Also, you should not distort the situation in the other direction and actively admire your child, while belittling the abilities and skills of other children. All children are talented and capable, but each in their own way.

If you notice that your child was naughty, did not listen to teachers, interfered with the holiday, or behaved inappropriately, talk to him after the holiday. Think, maybe you are the reason for this behavior? There is no need to overreact if a child’s shirt comes out or his crown slips askew. Only you can see this, so think through all the details of the costume in advance.

When you get into the hall, do not forget to turn off the sound of mobile phones so that it does not ring at the most inopportune moment. No conversations on the phone are allowed during the matinee - nothing at this moment is more important than your child’s performance.

During the matinee, you must not distract children and all other guests by walking around the hall, getting up from your seat, shouting something, or calling your child.

It is not advisable to take small children with you, especially infants, because they can cry at the most inopportune moment and interfere with the event.

But it is advisable to support little artists with applause, because children so need approval.

At the matinee, try to sit so that the child can see you clearly and smile approvingly at him so that the baby understands that you believe in him and are proud of him. When he begins to read the poem, look straight into his eyes and repeat the verse quietly with your lips, like a prompter. This will help the child overcome fear and recite the poem without hesitation. After all, for young children it doesn’t matter at all how other children and other people’s parents evaluate his performance; the main thing for them is that his mother and father like his performance. If they smile, then everything is fine, even if he forgot the words of the poem from excitement and did not participate very actively in the matinee.

Only one member of the child’s family is invited to the kindergarten party.

If the scenario provides for the participation of parents, you can play or dance, and believe me, the children and you will really like it.

When the matinee is over, be sure to praise your child and help him change clothes. All these simple rules will help create the mood for you and your baby, and spend the holiday at the most worthy level. But this is the main thing!

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Memo “Organization and conduct of matinees in kindergarten”

Organization and holding of matinees in kindergarten.

Everyone loves holidays, but children especially adore them. Festive matinees in kindergarten are an important part of the educational process carried out in kindergarten. They actively influence the formation of the preschooler’s personality, allow him to demonstrate his skills, abilities, creative initiative, and sum up a certain result of pedagogical work. Therefore, preparation for the holiday, its holding and consolidation of the impressions received by children can be considered as parts of one single pedagogical process. Well-organized holidays have a beneficial effect on the development of mental processes: memory, attention, create an excellent situation for the development of a child’s speech, for consolidating knowledge acquired in various classes, and contribute to moral education. In kindergarten, matinees are not only an entertaining event, but a lot of difficult preparatory work. Matinees, like any other event, have both positive and negative sides. Firstly, children bear a heavy burden, both moral and physical. Preparation takes a lot of time and effort, often children take on a completely new role for themselves. Children need support from both teachers and parents. ATTENTION: The opinion of those parents who believe that they can not take their child to music classes, but only bring them to a matinee, is deeply mistaken.

Nothing but troubles will result for the child (due to ignorance of the material, inability to perform the simplest dance movements, ignorance of the words of songs, inability to change positions correctly and on time). The child gets upset, confused, nervous, often cries, and interferes with other children.

Both parents and children look forward to kindergarten holidays.
Children are happy that their parents will come to see them, and parents are given the opportunity to plunge into their own childhood memories. But matinees in kindergarten are held not only to please parents and students, immersing them in a festive atmosphere. There are other, more important goals and reasons. Goals of organizing the holiday
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The main goal of the holiday in a preschool educational institution is the formation of emotions and feelings, which are the most important condition for personal development. The holiday integrates various types of art: music, literary expression, dramatization, visual arts. We explain one form of art to another; one art interacts with another, performing in a single ensemble; works of different artistic specificity mutually complement each other. Therefore, the holiday, first of all, develops aesthetic feelings in children, an aesthetic attitude towards the surrounding reality; allows each child to discover new abilities and talents and develop existing skills; develops such mental processes as activity, self-confidence, ability to work in a team, cultivates moral, ethical, patriotic qualities. Children are united by common experiences, they are taught the foundations of collectivism; works of folklore, participation in holidays and entertainment form discipline and a culture of behavior in preschoolers. Preparing for the holiday is an excellent incentive for children in speech and music classes. Children learn songs, poems and dance movements for a reason, but in order to later demonstrate all their skills to their parents at a children’s party, and even receive gifts for this, which also occupy an important place in the child’s motivation. Thus, the teacher can always explain to the child why this or that activity is being done and why he needs to try. And when a child has a specific incentive, he will study harder. Preparation for the holiday.
Preparation for holidays and entertainment is carried out systematically and systematically, without disturbing the general rhythm of life of the kindergarten, to meet the interests of children, and to take into account their age and individual capabilities. The duration of the holiday depends on its content and the age characteristics of the children taking part in it. For children of primary and secondary preschool age, the duration of the holiday is from 20 to 30 minutes, for older and preparatory age no more than 40 minutes.

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The matinee in the kindergarten is part of the educational process, and therefore takes place in accordance with the daily routine and age-related physiological characteristics of the children. Each kindergarten has a charter in accordance with which entertainment is organized.

Approximate schedule for the duration of matinees:

Nursery/junior group -
20 min. Medium group -
30 min.
Senior group -
40 min.
Preparatory group -
50 min.

Why go to rehearsals?

Has your little one been going to nursery since September? You can be sure that already in October-November there will be a trial matinee “Autumn Ball”, after which the kids will begin to prepare for the New Year’s performance. As a rule, the New Year's holiday in the nursery is a round dance, a dance of snowflakes, and a performance of everyone's favorite “A Christmas tree was born in the forest.” If among the two-year-olds someone already speaks well and is able to learn the text, then they can give him a short poem.

Before matinees in the garden, rehearsals are held daily, during which children practice dancing, sing songs, and learn to read poetry expressively. If you are planning for your child to go to a matinee, then try not to skip kindergarten for no reason and not to stay at home.

Why without Santa Claus

Often the New Year for the nursery group passes without Santa Claus. Experienced teachers warn that children are afraid of the big bearded man and cry a lot. Therefore, the main hero of the holiday is the Blizzard or the Snow Maiden - a maternal image that is not at all scary for little pupils.

Should parents come?

Unfortunately, many parents do not want to take time off work and choose to buy a disc with a recording of the New Year's party. However, the arrival of mom or dad is very important for every child, because he wants you to appreciate his triumph. How great it is when, among other people’s adults, you see your mother’s smiling eyes and hear your father applauding you louder than anyone else. From these moments in the life of a little person, self-esteem, self-perception, self-confidence and confidence in the future are formed.

If everything is clear with older children, then what should mothers and fathers of two-year-olds do? Is it worth coming to a holiday in kindergarten for the younger group? There are two options, and each of them has a right to exist.

The creative activity of the youngest children is quite simply organized; all the “numbers” are oriented, rather, towards the enjoyment of the little ones themselves, rather than at entertaining the public. It’s normal that many people don’t want to dance holding hands right now, many may be scared, hot, hungry... In this state, they want one thing - to be held in their mother’s arms. And here she sits among strange adults, my dear! The child runs like a bullet to his loved one, not caring about the hospitable animators. If there are several such children, then the matinee can be considered disrupted. Therefore, many educators ask parents not to come to the first matinees, allowing the little ones to gradually adapt.

If the kindergarten administration is loyal to visiting holidays for young children, then parents should prepare their son or daughter in advance. Tell them that soon they will perform in front of their parents like big kids, and all the adults will rejoice and clap their hands. Mention that Father Frost and the Snow Maiden will come, who give gifts every New Year. Decide in advance whether it is worth taking your baby home after the holiday in kindergarten. If you need to return to work, then warn your child in advance, telling him that after a nap, mom will come and you will go to the store together for a treat for the newly-minted artist.

Should I take sisters and brothers?

Sometimes little guests - brothers and sisters - come to the matinee with their parents. It is no secret that children under 1-2 years of age do not always understand the purpose of the holiday; they quickly get fed up with bright colors, get tired and begin to be capricious. The circumstances were not the best, and the baby threw a tantrum? Leave the music room so as not to interrupt the performance.

Remember that a New Year's party for a child is a very serious and responsible event. This was preceded by long rehearsals, accompanied by excitement. After the event, be sure to praise the baby and tell him how proud you are of him. If there were hesitations while reading the poem, then do not attach importance to it, do not compare with other guys. Your son or daughter is the most talented, and this is what they should think after a matinee in kindergarten.

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Rules for attending a matinee in kindergarten for parents

Rules for attending a matinee at a preschool educational institution for parents

Dear mothers and fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers!
Your child attends kindergarten, and of course you are invited to matinees. And this is wonderful, because you can once again be convinced of how smart, beautiful, talented and quick-witted your child is. And so that both you and your child do not feel disappointed after the holiday. It is enough to follow a few simple rules. Get ready for the matinee: If you are asked to prepare some attribute or costume for a child, do not refuse! Raising a child is a continuous and varied process, and not only kindergarten staff, but also parents should take part in it. Then the results of our common efforts will be more noticeable.

Come to kindergarten for the holidays: Your visit is extremely important for your child. After all, he wants you to appreciate his successes. If none of the family members can come to the holiday, then be sure to honestly warn the child about this, do not reassure him or deceive him. Then ask for a copy of the video and subsequent family viewing of the recording of the matinee can become a compromise solution to this issue. Do not devalue your child’s efforts. For a child, a matinee is a very serious event, very responsible. He prepared for a long time, rehearsed, and, of course, he is worried! Support him, tell him you are proud of him! Even if he forgot something or confused something during the performance, do not pay attention to it and under no circumstances compare your child with other children! All children are talented and capable, only each in their own way. Follow the rules: Kindergarten is an institution with certain rules. You may be asked to put on shoe covers and remove outer clothing. This is done for convenience and to maintain cleanliness. Come to the holiday on time, do not make you wait and delay the overall holiday. Try not to break the rules of conduct. Rules of conduct for parents at children's parties. 1. The holiday in kindergarten is held not for parents, but for children. 2. Entrance to the music room is permitted with a change of shoes and without outerwear. 3. During the matinee, it is prohibited to use cell phones. 4. Photos and videos can only be taken from your own place and with the permission of the music director and the kindergarten administration. 5. You cannot distract your child by talking or shouting from your seat. 6. During the matinee, parents are prohibited from moving from one place to another or getting up from their place. 7. It is undesirable for younger children to be present at the party. 8. If two groups of children are present at the holiday, only one parent is invited to each child. 9. At the request of the music director and teacher, parents can take part in the children's matinee (sing a song with the children, dance with the child, play, etc.)
Failure to comply with these basic rules distracts the children and prevents them from feeling like the main participants in the action.
And remember: just like artists, performing children need Applause! Parents and matinees 1. First of all, your task is to understand how much the child is afraid of the public. Failure at the first performance can greatly hurt an introverted child, and he needs to be prepared not to be embarrassed by a large number of strangers who are looking at him with wide eyes. Is your baby easy to relate to new people in your home? How does he react when a stranger greets him: does he hide behind your back or say: “Hello, my name is...”? Has he ever recited poetry or danced in front of a large number of people? Ask yourself these questions to evaluate your ability to easily handle public speaking. If it becomes obvious that this is difficult for the baby, pay special attention to preparing for the New Year's party in the garden. If your baby is a born actor, then he will still need not support, but parental attention and thunderous applause. 2. Try to find time to prepare a good carnival costume. The main thing is not to do everything hastily, but calmly and joyfully, attracting the child to help. This will strengthen his self-confidence and he will feel your support. The costume must be made in advance. So that it is familiar and familiar to the baby, otherwise the outfit may confuse him and prevent him from performing well. 3. Together with your child, learn the poems and do a “check run” several times. Play the role of Santa Claus, turn your preparation for the performance into a game form, do not hesitate to say in a bass voice: “What rhyme do you know, boy?” Check with your teacher about the script; perhaps your rehearsal line should be different. It’s also a good idea to find out the moment before the child’s speech so that you can play it “for that guy” - this will make it easier for the child to start his speech. Calmly and kindly inquire about the preparations for the holiday: “Have you already danced in costumes? How amazing!" 4. If your child is not worried, but is looking forward to the holiday, do not weaken your attention. Artistic children also tend to feel nervous and overexcited, despite the fact that the anticipation of the performance makes them happy. Go through the same stages of preparation as with a withdrawn child, but be a “balancing beginning”, speak in a calm tone, reassure. The night before a performance, any child will be worried, sit with your baby longer before bed, but you still need to go to bed on time. 5. Prepare a fancy dress and clothes the day before so as not to injure your baby by hastily getting ready. Try to arrive at kindergarten on time. 6. Please note: teachers are also worried, you should not distract them on this important day, and you can ask questions and communicate after the holiday. 7. Try to attend the New Year's party in kindergarten, no matter how busy you are at work. Your support and personal presence during his public speaking are very important to the child. He wants to share his emotions with you and hear how proud you are of him. It is ideal to take a day off on the day of the holiday to go home with your baby together. 8. Help the child get dressed, let him play around a little. Do not reprimand him with strict demands to “take care of the suit,” because games before the holiday help relieve tension. It is best to keep fragile parts of the costume in your hands until the last moment, such as a cardboard cap, a snowman's nose, etc. 9. Be fair to other parents. Everyone wants to take photos and shoot videos. Agree on how to sit so as not to disturb each other. Children are very nervous when adults cannot agree and conflict. 10. During the performance, be generous with applause for each child. If your baby stumbles, don’t tell him - that’s what teachers are for. Do not reprimand other children, even if they behave inappropriately, for example, they bully your child. This is again the work of educators, and you are a spectator. 11.After the performance, be generous with compliments to all the children. They did a lot of hard work. Give your baby the opportunity to socialize and play with the children, and then it is advisable to take him home. If you are in a hurry to go to work, praise your child again, say that you are sorry that you have to leave, but in the evening you will certainly meet and tell your household together how everything went. 12. Discussion of the New Year's party in the garden. 13. It is important for a child that his loved ones know about his triumph. Talk about the performance together and be generous with your praise for the entire performance and your child’s role. Refrain from criticism and comments about flaws - of course, there were many of them, but the children are still small and the fact that they were able to organize themselves is quite a feat. Discuss with your child what he liked and didn’t like. Perhaps he views the performance a little more maturely than you expected. Many children at three or four years old clearly see flaws in their performance and note the bad behavior of others: Petya forgot his words, Masha pulled me, I forgot which way to go. Think together about how to avoid such problems in the future. The main thing is that the discussion of the New Year's party in the garden is conducted in a joyful manner and the child retains the feeling of the holiday. And to make it easier to remember all of the above, I bring to your attention this poem: We are glad to see everyone in the music hall! Children's laughter always sounds here. And to make the holiday calmer and more fun, there is no need to take babies with you: They will get tired, they will cry and scream, It’s not good to upset the artists. On the day of the holiday, try to get up earlier, so as not to be late for the matinee at the kindergarten, so that your daughter or your son can put on a suit calmly. But take a camera or a camera, and be sure to film the whole holiday for us. “What is possible? “- you ask us, We ask you, dear ones, to support the children with applause, so that the artists become bolder. And if you had to be late, then try not to bother anyone. You pause between numbers, go into the hall and sit down at the door. And don't forget to take off your coat and hats. Take off your boots, put on slippers, and high-heeled shoes, so that everyone around you will say: “Ah!” We also want, friends, to invite you to show your talents in the hall: Read poetry, sing songs, dance, Make jokes, play a role on stage. Dance, sing, have fun with your dreams, And know: we are always looking forward to meeting you!

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Rules of conduct for parents at holiday parties in kindergarten

Rules of conduct for parents at children's matinees in kindergarten.

Welcome to our children's party!

And we invite you to familiarize yourself with the rules.

We are happy to see everyone in kindergarten! There are always songs and children's laughter here.

And to make the holiday calmer and more fun, there is no need to take infants with you. They will get tired, they will cry and scream, It’s not good to upset the artists.

On the day of the holiday, try to get up earlier. So as not to be late for the kindergarten matinee. So that your daughter or your son can easily put on a suit. But take a camera or camera, and be sure to film us the whole holiday.

But what is possible? Just ask us! We ask you, dear ones, to support the children with applause, so that the artists become bolder.

And if you had to be late, then try not to bother anyone. Wait for a pause between numbers, go into the hall and sit down at the door.

And don't forget to take off your coat and hats. Take off your boots, put on slippers, or better yet, high-heeled shoes. So that everyone around says: “Ah!”

We also want to invite you, friends, to show off your talents in the hall. Read poetry, sing songs, dance, joke, play a role on stage. Dance, sing, have fun with us. And know that we always look forward to pleasant meetings with you!

Dear mothers, fathers, grandparents!

If your child goes to kindergarten, then you are probably invited to matinees. And this is wonderful, because you can once again see how beautiful, smart, talented, and smart your child is! And so that both you and your child do not experience a feeling of disappointment after the holiday, it is enough to follow a few simple rules.

Get ready for the matinee!!!

Come to kindergarten for the holidays!!!

It's clear that you are very busy. But your arrival is extremely important for your child! After all, he wants you to appreciate his successes, it is you who listen to him read poetry and sing. A child does not always feel like an artist and enjoys performing in front of an audience as such. For him, performing in front of an audience “in general” is fundamentally different from performing in front of an audience that includes a loved one. If, nevertheless, none of the family members can go to the holiday, then be sure to honestly warn the child about this, and in no case reassure him or deceive him. Perhaps one of the parents will film the matinee with a video camera - then ask for a copy of the recording, because in our age of digital technology and the Internet this is very easy to do. And the subsequent family viewing of the recording of the matinee can become a compromise solution to this issue.

Don't devalue your child's efforts!!!

For a child, a matinee is a serious event, very responsible. He prepared and rehearsed for a long time. And he, of course, is worried! Support him, tell him you are proud of him. Even if he forgot or mixed up something during the performance, do not pay attention to it and under no circumstances arrange a “debriefing” and do not compare your child with Masha, Sasha or Misha. Your child is the best and most talented! And he must understand that you think exactly this way and no other way. Also, you should not distort the situation in the other direction and actively admire your child, while belittling the abilities and skills of other children. All children are talented and capable, but each in their own way.

Follow the rules!!!

A kindergarten is an institution with certain rules. You may be asked to put on shoe covers and remove outer clothing. This is done for convenience and to maintain cleanliness. Come to the holiday on time. Do not make you wait and delay the general holiday. Try not to break the rules of the kindergarten, especially since it is not at all difficult.

Take part in the celebration!!!

Very often, scenarios for children's matinees involve interactivity. Children and parents are offered competitions, tasks, and joint games. Don't refuse to participate! Your child will be very pleased, and you, most likely, will enjoy it, briefly “falling into childhood.”

That's probably all. We wish you and your children an interesting holiday and a good mood!

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