Both children and adults must follow the rules of friendship if they want to have real and faithful friends.
When a person is kind, he is beautiful, when he is kind and beautiful, he is loved, when he is loved, he is happy. If a person is kind, then there are always many kind, beautiful and loving people or friends next to him. This is a well-known pattern, and the life experience of many of us shows that such a statement is one hundred percent accurate.
- Teach your children to be friends and be kind. This will make their life easier.
- Read in this article what rules of friendship children should know.
- Tell your child about these rules.
- Let him know that only kindness and mutual assistance are the main components of good relationships between people.
What are the rules of friendship: 25 rules of friendship and camaraderie
Three little friends
We are often visited by thoughts about whether we are doing everything right in relation to our boyfriend or girlfriend. Anyone can make mistakes, but it is important to see your mistake and correct it in a timely manner. The rules of friendship will help you see your wrong actions. You need to stick to them, and then your friend will always be there, making life simple, happy and joyful. Basic 25 rules of friendship and camaraderie:
- Smile more often . Learn to change the gloomy expression on your face to a smile, because no one likes to see an always dissatisfied friend next to them.
- Know how to listen . Listen carefully to your friend. Find out about the details during a conversation, use facial expressions and look into the eyes of your interlocutor.
- Visit a friend if he is sick . Friends need each other not only in times of fun, but also in times of trouble.
- Give advice, but don't get into personal matters . You can give some advice, but you don't need to interfere with your friend's life. Let him come to one decision or another on his own.
- Keep secrets. Do not tell other people the secrets you have entrusted to a friend, because a friend must share his secrets with someone, and this should be a close friend.
- Don't date your friends' ex-partners. If your friend's ex-boyfriend or girlfriend pays attention to you, then it is better to refuse such communication. Otherwise it will have a bad effect on the friendship. But if this is love, then for the sake of it people can sacrifice friendship.
- Tell your friend when he makes a mistake . It is better to learn about a mistake from a friend than from another person. Explain why your friend is wrong.
- Sincerely rejoice at your friend's victory . Thanks to this, your friend will understand how dear he is to you.
- Trust a friend . Trust is one of the most important qualities of a good friendship.
- Help your friend when he needs it. If a friend is in trouble, you need to help him get out of an unpleasant situation.
- Praise your friend and give compliments . Recognition is important for every person. You always need someone to praise you for your success.
- Don't be jealous of your friend. A friend has the right to have other friends besides you.
- Don't be touchy . The person may be wrong. Know how to forgive and don’t hold a grudge.
- Don't be intrusive . It is better to meet once a month, but it should be the mutual desire of both friends. After all, one of your friends may be too busy and will not be able to see you every day.
- Keep your promises . This builds trust and therefore friendship.
- Do not change your behavior towards your friend in the presence of other people . People can communicate well together, but in a group one of them changes dramatically to make an impression. Friends don't do that.
- Be sincere. Don't pretend, be yourself.
- Don't refuse the request. If a friend asks you to do something, you should do it if possible. Your friend will definitely appreciate it.
- Spend as much time together as you both need . Doing something together is always interesting. For example, go to a movie or to a cafe.
- Don't betray your friend . This is the worst thing a person can do to another, even if he doesn't know it.
- Lend your shoulder so a friend can cry . If he is in trouble, let him tell you, and you will support him in this difficult moment. After all, it is important for any person to speak out.
- Change your plans if a friend needs help , because friendship comes first.
- If a friend is feeling bad, offer him your help , even if he didn't ask for it.
- Respect your friend's freedom . A person’s inner world is important to him and this must be remembered.
- Protect your friend if they are discussing him and he is not around . A friend should always remain a friend and it is important to protect a comrade, even if at that moment he is not in the company.
There are more friends at a young age than at an older age, since friends are tested by time. Only the most faithful, friendly and sincere people are always with us for many years.
Laws of friendship for schoolchildren
In addition to the basic laws that apply to any manifestations of friendship, there are several rules that relate to friendship between schoolchildren. Considering that you are in a certain group, you need to be able to stand up for a friend if classmates try to offend him. Moreover, you must always protect your friend, even in his absence, and not allow others to speak badly about him. If a friend is sick, you need to visit him and help with homework. If he is lagging behind in some subjects that you are good at, you need to help him “pull up” the required discipline. You also can’t be jealous and a one-man farmer. If, in addition to you, your friend has other close acquaintances, you need to respect his right to have as many friends as he wants.
By following the laws of friendship in elementary school, you will lay the foundation for strong relationships that can last a lifetime. Friendship from school to old age is one of the most valuable manifestations of any person’s life.
Composition on the theme – “Three rules of friendship”: description, photo
You can better understand the rules of friendship if you look at them visually. Compositions will help to do this. Three basic rules of friendship - compositions in the photo with description:
Trust is one of the basic rules of friends . If you cannot trust a person with your secrets, then your relationship cannot be called friendship. A fawn in the arms of a wolf - this composition shows the feeling of trust best of all.
Composition on the theme “Trust between friends”
Help a friend. A true friend is the person who will always be there and come to the rescue. This is well illustrated by the painting “Two Friends with a Dog.” One boy collects apples from a tree, and the other holds up a basket. Even a dog is ready to help, and these animals are considered man's best friends.
Composition on the theme “Helping a friend”
Composition on the theme “Know how to listen.” A true friend will always listen to his friend, because this is important to him.
Composition on the theme “Know how to listen to a friend”
The reliable foundation of friendship is mutual assistance. This feeling originated among ancient people, when they needed it to survive and overcome hunger, cold and disease.
Basic rules of friendship
smile more
Don't be lazy to change your frown into a smile for your friend. Few people like to look at a dissatisfied and sad face.
Listen
Listen carefully to what your friend tells you. Let him know that you are listening to him. Ask questions, ask for details. You can also use eye contact and body language when summarizing your story.
Visit your friend when he is sick
A friend in need is a friend. We all know this saying, but we always do the same thing. A friend is not only a person with whom you can drink beer and talk. Sometimes he needs your support.
If your friend needs support, give him some helpful advice. But don't interfere in his life. Let him make his own decisions.
Keep secrets
Sometimes a friend has to share his secret with someone. If you are such a person, never reveal the secret entrusted to you. Learn to keep your friends' secrets.
Don't date your friends' ex-partners
Do not seduce your boyfriend or girlfriend, even if they are already your ex-friends. This obviously won't help your friendship.
Tell them when they're wrong
It is better to hear this from your friend than from a stranger. Tell your friend that he is wrong and explain why.
8. Rejoice in your friends' victories
This is a great way to strengthen your friendship and show how much you value your friend.
Trust each other
There are no truly strong relationships without trust and friendship is no exception.
Help your friend when he needs it
If you can do something well, help your friend; if he is in trouble, help him get out of this situation.
Give compliments and praise
All people need recognition. It's not difficult to encourage your friend and praise him for his success.
Don't be jealous
Respect your friend's right to have other friends besides you.
Don't hold grudges
Every person has their ups and downs and you have to understand that. Try to forgive your friend and not hold grudges.
You don't have to tell your friends every day
You can meet once a month or once a year, but these meetings will cost more than communicating with someone in chat rooms or with colleagues at work.
Always keep your promises
This will build trust in you and make your friendship even stronger.
Don't change your behavior towards your friend in front of others.
Sometimes two friends may talk sincerely to each other, spend time together, but in the presence of other people, one of them may completely change her behavior to impress the other person. Never do this. This can completely ruin your friendship.
Be sincere
Never pretend to be someone else or give up your opinion. Be yourself.
Don't refuse if your friend asks for something
As I said before, friendship is not only joy. Sometimes you need help.
Do something together
Do what you both enjoy. Watch a movie, go to a concert, have a couple of beers, etc.
Never betray your friend
Even if your friend doesn't know, it's the worst thing you can do. This can ruin even the strongest friendships.
Besides, sometimes you have to let your friend go. Everything comes to an end, and so does friendship. Don't be angry if this happens to you. Try to understand and let go of your friend.
What is friendship? How to find a good friend?
To find yourself a good friend, according to the advice of psychologists, you need to follow a few not so complicated tips.
Proximity in territory - it is this factor that almost always becomes the root cause of a nascent friendship. Almost everyone makes friends among classmates, colleagues or neighbors.
Similarity of interests. Friendship is often based on the fact that people have similar interests. However, this does not mean that they must match completely. Most sociologists also include similar social status here, believing that people belonging to the same social circle can much more easily find a common language.
Friends always interact with each other as it can bring people closer to a great extent. It is through interaction that people become more aware of the tastes and characteristics of others. In addition, it will make you feel like you are part of a group that is doing the same thing.
It is common to share some personal information with friends. Without self-disclosure, only work colleagues could be friends. For a successful friendship, not only the fact of transmitting personal information is important, but also the emotionality with which this information is transmitted.
How to be friends correctly
Scientists have conducted many studies that have shown that despite all the differences in culture, the rules of friendship among all nations are approximately the same. The code of true friendship includes four basic parts: exchange, intimacy, attitude towards third parties and coordination.
— you need to share information about your successes with a friend;
- you always need to emotionally support your friend;
- help a friend if he needs something;
- try to make your friend pleasant to be in your company;
- you need to repay debts and services provided.
Intimacy:
- you need to trust a friend and be completely confident in him.
Relation to third parties:
- You need to be patient with other friends;
- do not criticize your friend if you are not alone;
- if your friend told you some secret, keep it and don’t tell anyone about it;
- It’s better not to pry into your friend’s personal relationships, especially since you shouldn’t be jealous of him.
Coordination:
- you shouldn’t be too annoying and especially not read dull lectures to your friend;
- you will have to respect the inner world of your friend.
Class hour: “Rules of Friendship”, 2nd grade.
Class hour.
Class:
2
Subject:
"Rules of Friendship"
Goals:
use materials from literary works to reveal what “friendship” and “rules of friendship” are;
to form the moral qualities of students - the ability to make friends, cherish friendship, a sense of mutual understanding;
cultivate a love for puppet theater;
develop speech, memory of students, cognitive activity, creative abilities of children.
Equipment:
screen, dolls, scenery for the play, computer, flowers, clearing, coloring books.
Progress of the lesson.
The song “We Divide Everything in Half” plays.
-Hello guys! Today you were greeted by the children's song “We Divide Everything in Half” by Mikhail Plyatskovsky and Vladimir Shainsky. How many of you guessed what we will talk about?
-That's right, about friendship. At all times, people have thought about friendship. Listen to Leonid Izmailov’s poem “Monologue about Friendship”
The teacher reads the poem.
What is friendship? Does everyone know? Maybe it’s funny to ask? What does the word “friendship” mean? Maybe a trip to the movies together, Maybe a good pass in football, Maybe a hint at the blackboard, Maybe defense in a school fight, Or just a cure for boredom? Well, maybe silence in class, If a friend does something bad? Let's say Kolya decorated the walls, Mikhail saw everything, but is silent. Is it really friendship if someone didn’t want to solve fractions at home: There was no desire to study, And a friend lets him write it off... Well, maybe friendship is if a Friend always speaks pleasantly, Sprinkling his speech with flattery, And never says anything harsh?
What is friendship, everyone knows? Maybe it’s funny to ask? Well, what does this word mean? So what is it?
The poem is read by children in grade 2. Friendship is if your friend is sick and cannot come to school, - Visit him of your own free will, Bring school lessons, Patiently explain assignments, Take on part of his worries. Give him your attention Days, weeks, month or year... If your friend is something, unfortunately. If you did or said something bad, you must honestly, directly, without a doubt, tell him the Truth in his face. Maybe he won’t be able to understand everything, Maybe he’ll suddenly be offended. You still have to tell the truth, Because that’s what a best friend is for. Friendship in joy and friendship in sorrow. A friend will always give his last. A friend is not the one who flatters, but the one who argues. The one who does not deceive, will not betray. Friendship never knows boundaries, There are no barriers to friendship. Friendship on earth unites all children - both white and colored. Friendship is when children write letters to children from another country. Friendship means peace on the entire planet, without orphans, without the horrors of war.
- Thanks guys. Friendship is the main miracle in the world, and any trouble is not a problem if you have real friends nearby.
It’s not for nothing that they say: “If you don’t have a friend, look for him, but if you find him, take care of him.”
Friendship should be valued. Do you know the rules of friendship?
- Let's repeat them. Let's collect a bouquet of friendship from flowers on which are written tips to maintain friendship. Take a flower each. Throw flowers with incorrect advice in the trash.
The teacher hands out flowers to the children. The music sounds “One, two, woe betide” Savelyev B., Flyarkovsky A. Children collect a bouquet “Rules of Friendship”
-Look how beautiful our bouquet of friendship turned out to be. I hope that you did not make a mistake in choosing the right advice. Let's check. Read the rules that help maintain friendship.
Children read notes on flowers.
“I’m glad that you know how to maintain friendship, it means you have real friends.” But the heroes from the fairy tale “Teremok” once forgot these rules of friendship and look what came of it.
The play “Hold on to each other - don’t be afraid of anything” will be performed for you by students of class 5A.
After the performance, the actors bow in front of the screen.
- Guys, we want to make friends with you too, is it possible?
- Come out to us quickly.
The actors hand out dolls to the children and stand in a circle.
5th grade students read poetry.
Let's hold hands and let a huge round dance go across the earth!
So that the sun shines, So that there is enough for everyone, So that flowers bloom in the meadows, So that you and I are friends. Let's hold hands and stand in a circle. Every person is a friend to another! If you have friends in the world - Everything is beautiful, everything blooms. Even the strongest wind, Even a storm will not bend. We will walk merrily in the rain, in the snow and in the cold. We are friends in any weather - this friendship cannot be broken. And any of us will answer, Everyone who is young and brave will say: You and I live in the world for good, glorious deeds.
-Let’s all sing together a funny song about friendship “When my friends are with me.” The song is performed by a student from the 5th grade.
- Guys, let’s finish our class hour with this song. But our friendship with you continues. Let's hold on to each other and not be afraid of anything!
Summarizing. Reflection.
— What interesting things did you learn today?
- What did you like? Please accept coloring pages as a keepsake of our conversation.
Children are given drawings and coloring books with cartoon characters and proverbs about friendship.
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