So, several years have already been lived in a happy marriage, life has settled down and revolves according to the same scenario: home-work-home, and then dinner-TV-sleep.
Begins to desperately want romance. The partner sitting next to you on the couch becomes bored. In such a situation, you need to begin to act actively, and as soon as possible. After all, prolonged boredom in marriage threatens the complete collapse of the relationship! But how can you add more bright colors to life, diversify your life and once again experience long-forgotten impulses of passion? The best way is to play role-playing games with your husband. This will help to discover natural sexuality, to show it from new, sometimes unexpected sides.
Most Popular Scenario
What are the most popular role-playing games with your husband?
The nurse and the doctor are the main fictional characters of the marital bed. This fantasy occupies many men and women. There can be three approximate scenarios: a doctor and a patient, a nurse and an imaginary patient, a doctor and an inexperienced nurse.
To play out such a scenario, you will need very few accessories: a white robe, stockings, erotic lingerie and any medical instruments.
It can start with either a man portraying a doctor conducting an examination, or a woman playing the role of the same doctor or a young sister.
Various styles of behavior are possible:
- the young girl does not realize how excited the patient is, looking at her charms;
- a sexy nurse casually shows off her seductive curves during procedures;
- The fatal temptress prescribes sex as medicine.
Summary of the plot-role-playing game “Military Hospital” for children of senior preschool age
- introduce professions in a military hospital;
- reflect in the game the work of military doctors, nurses, and orderlies;
- continue to develop the ability to unite in the game, to fulfill the roles assumed;
- to cultivate feelings of patriotism, respect and empathy for military doctors and defenders of the homeland, gratitude for their hard work;
- cultivate friendly relationships between children, the ability to take into account the interests of comrades, and provide them with all possible assistance.
Q: There are different types of doctors, among them there are those who have shoulder straps on their shoulders. These are military doctors. A military doctor is a difficult profession, but extremely necessary. The main task of a military doctor is to save the lives of wounded soldiers. And military nurses and orderlies help military doctors in their difficult work.
Q: Guys, I suggest you play the game «
Military hospital
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Q:What is a hospital? (hospital for wounded soldiers)
Q: In our game, the military hospital is located near the front line where our soldiers fight the enemy. The mission of our hospital —
provide first aid to wounded soldiers and send them to the rear, away from the front line, where they are safe, they will be treated until recovery.
Q: Let's remember what kind of work doctors, what nurses, what orderlies do. (the chief physician supervises the work of a military hospital , surgeons perform operations, remove bullets and shrapnel from wounded soldiers, sew up wounds, prescribe medications, nurses carry out doctor’s orders: bandage the wounded, give medicines, give injections, nurses care for the wounded, feed them, They change their underwear and help them wash.)
The teacher distributes roles (chief physician - teacher, emergency room doctor, nurse, nurses - girls, boys - soldiers).
Q: Medical personnel are ready to go, a car with wounded has arrived.
Ch. doctor: Orderlies and nurses help the wounded, take them to the emergency room.
Orderlies and nurses bring the wounded to the emergency room.
Ch. doctor: Take the seriously wounded soldiers first for examination.
The nurse reports to the emergency room doctor: fighter Elisey Korolev, wounded in the head by a mine fragment. The doctor examines the fighter and sends him to the operating room. In the operating room, the surgeon and nurse remove the fragment, stitch up the wound and transfer the fighter to the ward.
Nurse to doctor: Soldier Ivan Klimenko, bullet wound in the arm.
Emergency room doctor: The fighter needs a bandage. Nurse, escort the soldier to the treatment room. The nurse takes the fighter to the treatment room, treats the wound and bandages it. The nurse takes the fighter into the room.
Nurse to the doctor: Soldier Alexander Korkishko, unconscious, weak heartbeat. The doctor examines the fighter and gives instructions to the nurse. The fighter is receiving medical assistance.
Nurse to the doctor: Sergeant Miron Datsko, gunshot wound to the leg. The doctor examines the wound and sends the fighter to the operating room. A surgeon performs an operation. The nurse transfers the fighter to the ward.
A doctor and nurses conduct a round of wounded soldiers in the ward. They inquire about their well-being, and the doctor prescribes medical procedures for them.
Nurse to the nurses: The wounded need to be fed and hygienic procedures carried out. Nurses care for the wounded.
Doctor to nurses: A car will arrive soon to deliver the wounded to the rear. Please prepare the wounded and documents.
Nurses carry out procedures with the wounded and prepare documents.
A car arrives. Nurses help the wounded get into the car and the car drives to the rear.
Ch. The doctor gathers medical personnel: today we provided medical assistance to the wounded soldiers who came to us from the front line and sent them to the rear. Thanks everyone for your work. Now we need to prepare to receive new wounded from the front line, I ask everyone to get to work.
Q: Guys, today you realized what a difficult profession a military medic is - that is, a doctor, a nurse, an orderly, millions of lives depended on them.
The teacher reads a poem:
Glory and honor to military doctors, you had to stay awake at night. You saved the lives of many soldiers, telling them, hold on brother, hold on. Bullets, fragments, despicable metal, the Doctor took out from the Russian soldiers. One by one, the guys arrive, there are quite a few “Three Hundreds”, the war is to blame. The sisters rush to help the fighters, as if they want to replace their mothers. They had seen enough, seen everything, the Soldier was dying - they were crying on the sidelines. Bullets whistle, bombs explode. Doctors have enough work to do in war. Again the operation, again the struggle. Doctors are fighting for the boys' lives. Far from home, without seeing their relatives, they saved young children from death. They will remain grateful to you, God bless all the nurses and doctors. You played with death in these battles, It retreated before your eyes. You did everything to ensure that the soldier survived, so that more guys would return home *****
A stupid provincial girl and her employer
A young, inexperienced girl working in a rich house and the boorish son of the owner - this is another plot in which role-playing games with your husband can take place. Dressed in a maid's uniform, stockings and high heels, the girl walks in front of her partner, brushing off dust with a fluffy brush and frequently bending over to pick up something. He begins to rudely pester. And of course, the stupid provincial girl can’t resist her employer.
Such role-playing games with your husband will require very few props. You can buy a dust brush at your local hardware store. And shoes and stockings should be in the wardrobe of every self-respecting young woman.
As for the maid's dress, it should be short with the top as open as possible. You can buy a ready-made version or decorate an ordinary dress using simple old lace.
Inexperienced schoolgirl
This fantasy is very common in Japanese sexual culture. Short skirts and white socks combined with a double ponytail hairstyle excite many men around the world. Perhaps this fantasy will firmly enter into your role-playing games with your husband.
Choosing a suit is quite simple. In this scenario, appropriate behavior is key. The partner should imagine that she is a very young girl who knows about sex only from the stories of her friends. And her partner - an adult man - wants to teach her all the wisdom. And for tasks completed “excellently,” he promises to give her delicious candy.
New role-playing games with my husband: description
If you decide to play role-playing games with your husband, you should think through the scenario in advance. The following five options will make your imagination work actively, and the next night will definitely not be boring.
1. The most common role-playing games with your husband: a doctor examines a patient. For example, a wife came to see a dermatologist and acts out the following dialogue:
Doctor: Hello. Have a seat. What are you complaining about?
Patient: You know, some spots appeared on my neck... here (points, running his hand along the neck towards the chest).
Dermatologist (examines): There is nothing wrong with this, just an insect bite.
Patient: Yes? And I was so scared, that’s why I rushed to the reception.
Dermatologist: That's right. Health is not something to joke about. Perhaps there are other complaints? Are there any other stains anywhere?
Patient: Oh, doctor! There seems to be some redness on my back too.
Doctor: Take off your shirt, they should be examined immediately...
2. In ordinary scenes at the stadium, during a match, moments of eroticism may also arise. Let’s imagine a dialogue between a drinks seller and a fan:
Seller: Water, juices, seeds, ice cream!
Fan: Give me half a liter of mineral water and a glass of sunflower seeds. How much will it cost?
Seller: Only 40 rubles and... your panties...
3. An interesting scene can take place even in the entrance of a city high-rise building. Imagine that a very suspicious resident approaches a stranger on the site and starts asking questions...
Suspicious resident: Hello. Who did you come to? Why have you been standing on the site for half an hour? What are you waiting for?
Stranger: Well... you know... I'm Andrei's friend from the third floor.
Suspicious woman: Which Andrey? Nobody goes to see him at all. What's in your package? Are you a drug addict?
Stranger: No, no!
Suspicious woman: I'll call the police now! But... if you do something for me...
4. Daily skirmishes on forums can also become part of your intimate life. Let’s imagine a dialogue between a blogger and a troll in the comments:
Blogger: Drinking tea in the company of my beloved cat is what really brings me pleasure.
Troll: This is complete nonsense. The stupidest thing I've read all day on the Internet.
Blogger: How? I don’t understand what caused such words?!
Troll: Your blog contains such stupid information. It doesn't make any sense. I don't understand why I read all this. I'll tell everyone I know not to come here again!
Blogger: Oh no! What can I do?
Troll: I’m writing in private...
5. Now imagine that a dog shelter volunteer stopped a passerby on the street:
Volunteer: Hello. Wait. I work at a shelter for small, cute dogs. They really need help. Could you donate a few rubles for animal feed?
Passerby: But how do I know that you are not a fraud and the money will go to its intended purpose?
Volunteer: I have an ID. Besides, look into my eyes. They won't deceive you!
Passerby: Well, okay. I give you 100 rubles.
Volunteer: Oh! Are you that generous? What can I do for you?
Passerby: First, let your hair down and take off this terrible jacket...
Role-playing game
Authors : Psychologos - encyclopedia of practical psychology
Role-playing is a way of modeling a psychological situation that develops certain psychological and social skills.
Involuntary role-playing games Involuntary role-playing games are, first of all:
- children's games
He rode pan-pan, along the bridge himself... The child plays the role of master.
- household manipulation games (according to E. Bern)
According to Eric Berne, everyday games are a set of masks and patterns of behavior that are used semi-consciously or unconsciously, but with a specific purpose. It is “a series of complementary transactions with a clearly defined and predictable outcome. It represents a repeating set of sometimes monotonous transactions that look quite plausible on the surface, but have a hidden motivation; in short, it is a series of moves containing a trap, some kind of catch.” For example:
Seller: This model is better, but it’s more expensive and you can’t afford it.
Buyer: I'll take it! [even if there is half a month left until salary and fifty dollars in your pocket]
Typical dialogue "Hello!" - "Hello!" with a continuation about the weather also applies to games, since it takes place according to a clearly defined scenario for each culture.
Arbitrary role-playing games The relationship between the actor and the role, the author and the characters of the text or picture, the player and the character is much more complicated than it might seem at first glance. Firstly, this is a two-way process and affects both sides. The mask is not imposed from the outside; it grows organically from the face. No one will ever be able to play this or that role well without having in their character the traits of the character they are playing. A player preparing to play a character who does not resemble the character in any way will be forced to develop the qualities of that character, since otherwise there is no point in wearing a mask. A mechanically put on mask, no matter how high quality it is, will always be a dead mask, which is unacceptable for games. The point of the game is not to pretend to be a character, but to become one. Sincerely.
Roles performed by actors An actor chooses a range of roles, which he subsequently plays throughout his career. A brilliant actor constantly expands this spectrum and tries completely different roles - this is not a lie and the ability to pretend, but a flexibility of consciousness that allows you to get used to the role. But when you cultivate a new role in yourself, you not only enliven the role with yourself, but also make it a part of yourself. It seems they said about Nemirovich-Danchenko that when he was preparing to play scoundrels, people were afraid to approach him all day, and not just during the performance.
Sublimation in creativity (writing, drawing, music) The author creates a gallery of characters, getting used to each of them. The manner of drawing only crooked self-portraits is not even graphomania, these are essays in high school, but to claim that this or that author did not draw himself in any work is completely pointless. The author portrays himself in each of the characters, because otherwise none of them will be able to come to life. Even if a brilliant author describes a real person, it will not just be Boris Godunov, Chernyshevsky and Stalin, it will be Pushkin’s Godunov, Nabokov’s Chernyshevsky or Solzhenitsyn’s Stalin - the author invariably brings a part of himself to the character. On the other hand, as in the case of an actor, the author absorbs all the characters, grows them in himself before describing them, becomes them. Yes, the author may hate one or another of his characters. But - all the more dangerous for the author, because it turns into self-hatred. Fuck this character in yourself.
Story-based games (role-playing, reconstruction) This variety, in a sense, combines the two previous ones. The player can choose ready-made characters, like an actor; he can invent his own, like an author, he can take ready-made ones and change them to suit himself... Like an actor, he gets used to responding to the name of a character, speaking in his voice, using his gestures. The player can take on several characters (in “theoretic” games, even at the same time), he can take on other people’s characters and play them, respecting the character - due to which the identification with the character weakens. The reconstruction as a whole gives the same psychological picture.
Role-playing trainings The difference between role-playing trainings and other types of games is that they are directed in nature, this is targeted work on individual personality traits. Role training is often used to
- identifying latent character traits (including hidden and overt complexes)
- attracting the player's attention to certain properties of his character
- developing behavioral skills in situations of this type.
Depending on personal characteristics and the tasks of role-playing training, the player can choose several lines of behavior during the game.
- The first and most natural one is followed by the vast majority of players: this is a mask of oneself, slightly retouched and improved. Most beginners use it at the beginning of therapy. To form a first impression of a player, the first mask is usually enough, although many details and underlying currents remain hidden.
- As the player becomes more familiar with the game situation, he relaxes and feels more and more confident. Continuing to play himself, he gradually develops this mask, allowing himself more in a conditional situation than he would allow in a real one. At this stage, latent and suppressed character traits begin to appear. The player gives his favorite characters the properties that he would like to develop in himself. Therefore, here it is convenient to observe the player’s internal motivation, which can become obvious in his characters. But there is a danger of stagnation: in a significant proportion of cases, the player will not go beyond this stage on his own. The roleplaying of superheroes who beat everyone will begin; the superheroines everyone wants, and combinations of the two.
- At the next level, the player begins to experiment with roles. He tries out characters that are more and more different from the first mask and more and more strange and unexpected. Around this stage, the understanding comes that a character is a model of behavior. Having practiced behavioral skills for different types of situations, the player begins to combine them in real life, feeling this use of skills as “acting out” a particular character. In other words, having accumulated a significant number of lines of behavior, the player sees which of them is most convenient for a given situation (“Yeah, I’d better play this character here...”), which allows him to act with the greatest efficiency. But this process also has a downside. Firstly, the danger of getting stuck in the second stage is fraught with escapism and splitting of personality: the player is afraid to transfer behavioral skills from the model situation to the real one. Secondly, it is quite difficult to determine whether roleplaying assholes is “blowing off steam”, venting negative emotions, or developing skills. Repeated repetition can bring psychological and social skills to automatism, which can lead to serious consequences if the player’s initial choice of behavior is incorrect.
Encyclopedia of practical psychology "Psychologos"
published 11/12/2013 13:06 updated 13/01/2014 – Pedagogy and psychology
